How To Squeeze In More Quality Family Time Everyday

If you want to have a lasting marriage and a happy family life, you need to learn how to use your time well. Your amount of time and how you spent it plays a crucial role in building and maintaining relationships. Unfortunately, the hectic pace of the modern world makes it a real challenge to make every moment count.

With so many tasks waiting to be accomplished, it is so easy to set aside family time for later. If you are not diligent enough, that family time you promise for later may never come. Your children may grow up hardly noticing your presence and your marriage may crumble and you will not even get the chance to save it.

First things first: Daily bonding time is doable!If you find yourself constantly wishing for more hours in a day just so you can spend more time with family members, you may need to consciously make an effort to make time for it. With a little creativity, you can come up with ways to bond with your kids and spouse daily. The following are simple ideas you can try in order to squeeze in more quality family time everyday:

Dine with family.

It will be hard to go through the day without eating, so making sure to share at least one of those meals with family will hardly take up much of your time. Aside from that, family mealtimes are a great way to catch up with each other. You may need to wake up earlier to have time for breakfast at home or forego overtime work so you can bond with your family over a hearty dinner. Work schedules can be erratic and hectic but it will be worth it to ensure that you get to eat with your family at least a few times a week.

Take your kids to school.

If the school where your children go happens to be on on your way to work, you have another reason to wake up earlier in the morning. That is so you can still have time to take your kids to school. It is an easy way to stay present in your kid’s life and to keep track of their school activities. This initiative may even get your kids excited about going to school.

Beat traffic with quality time.

Traffic jams can be annoying, but you cannot do anything about it most of the time, so you might as well beat it. On occasions when you are stuck on traffic and your family is with you, you can turn the frustrating time on the road as instant quality time. Instead of ranting or being idle, you can share stories with your kids or discuss something with your spouse. If the traffic is so bad, you can even play a mini game that you can all  conveniently do in a car.

Make good use of technology.

Instant messaging and social media have the tendency to steal precious family time if used in the wrong way. However, if you use it the right way, you can use technology to stay closer to your family members. On days when your schedule is full, you can still allow your spouse and children to feel your presence by leaving a surprise note on their social media account or simply texting leaving a message on their phones. It is an easy way to tell your family that you strive to make an effort to find time for them even on your busiest days.,

Take your family to work.

Companies know the importance of family, so there may be events and parties where you are encouraged to bring your kids and spouse. Watch out for these family-friendly company events and do not hesitate to take advantage of it. It is a great opportunity to create memories with your family.

You also hit two birds with one stone because at the same time you get to be an active participant in company affairs. As the saying goes, “Time is gold and it flies.” It is definitely one thing that you can never buy or take back, so you better make the most of it. One of the best ways to use time is with your family. You will surely not regret showering the people closest to you with your time.

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4 People You Need to Live a More Faith-Filled Life

It’s easy to lose sight of your spiritual vision from time to time when life happens and gets in the way. But spending time with people who share similar values, interests, and fundamental life goals can help you keep your spiritual life on track even when your personal life seems to be falling apart. If you want or are in need of a lifestyle change, taking a look at the kinds of people you fill your life with is a good start. To live a more faith-filled life make sure you surround yourself with people who share your similar spiritual goals. Here are four people you need in your life to live a more faith-filled life.

The other opinion

We are all entitled to our own opinions when it comes to everything from religion to politics. But make sure you stay educated and informed on your own opinions by exploring all perspectives when it comes to your spiritual viewpoints. The best way to do this is to learn from other people in your life who may have different opinions than your own. Be sure you stand behind the one that makes the most sense and mirrors your personal values and morals best, but keep an open mind and truly listen to those who have an opposing opinion. Remember, there is nothing wrong with disagreeing on certain topics. In fact, by disagreeing with someone you have the chance to strengthen your own views and give you another reason to stand behind them.

The younger perspective

We can learn from anyone and everyone in our lives. Age is just a number after all. So keep an open mind when discussing faith with your children or mentees. You’ll be surprised at the refreshing outlook younger minds can provide you with. When you’re lost on your own spiritual journey, listening to insight from someone who is in a completely different life stage than you can really rejuvenate your own outlook and provide a unique source of clarity.

The teacher

While younger perspectives may offer a more refreshing, innocent viewpoint, there is something to be said for the “older and wiser” people in our lives. They’ve been around the block a time or two, so they are often your best advice givers and listeners. Whether you find this perspective in your parents or you seek out an older mentor or religious person, be honest with them and your journey. They can provide you with invaluable advice and perspectives that can truly alternate your spiritual outlook.

The one you can count on

This one is no brainer. We need people in our lives that serve as our rocks, keep us grounded, and make sure our spiritual vision stays in line. Whether it’s a life partner, spouse, or faithful companion, we need to have people we can rely on to reinforce our faith on a daily basis. So choose carefully and make sure you have someone in your life who you can turn to when you feel lost on your own path.

The people you spend the most time with tend to be the people who are our biggest life influencers, so be sure to actively seek out people who serve as a positive influence on your own spiritual life.

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